The morning after pill

The morning after pill
One of the problems with the morning after is that there is a whiplash that comes with it.  Where the night before, the partner of our intimacy could do no wrong, the morning after, it feels like they can do no right.  At this point there is a temptation, a very strong temptation to abort the whole experience, and the person or persons with it.  “Throwing the baby out with the bath water.”  “The morning after pill,” this is a bitter pill to swallow.  Hebrews tells us, See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many,“  Hebrews 12:15 NIV.

This can be a very big problem in The Church, because for new believers the high of “new love” can be a set up for great disappointment.  The greater the high, the worse the crash.  A very big problem for the uninitiated is that our old man is not very discerning.  It can be very difficult to tell the difference between the high or chemistry of the flesh, and the high or chemistry of the Spirit.  The former is fleeting – the latter is ever lasting.  We are not talking about an earthly romance here, but a heavenly one.  The first love of the heavenly romance is meant to be everlasting,  Revelation  2:4, 5:

“Yet I hold this against you: You have forsaken your first love.
Remember the height from which you have fallen!
Repent and do the things you did at first.
If you do not repent,
I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place.”

Love!

A repost by Jay Ferris, originally posted on December 14, 2012

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Birthday Tribute to Jay Ferris

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Some call them “Jayisms”, others just pearls of wisdom.
But we know that Jay had the enduring quality of being able to pack a lot into a few words.

What is YOUR favorite one-liner?

One that made you laugh?
One that you find yourself saying a lot now?

In honor of Jay and his birthday today, a NEW PAGE on the LovingLikeGod blog has been created for these little gems, and any stories you might have around them.

So please, jump right in and share one of your favorites!

We Miss You Jay!

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Behavior appropriate to the level of contempt

The following is a new, previously unpublished writing by Jay Ferris, from November 2010.

contemptMatthew 13:58 – “And he did not do many miracles there because of their lack of faith.”
Mark 6:5 – “He could not do any miracles there, except lay his hands on a few sick people and heal them.”

Being the father of two sons, I had occasion to visit court rooms in various places and times. One of the very strong impressions that was made on me there was the importance of body language in the presence of a judge. On one occasion I witnessed a young man with hands in pockets and a slouched posture, severely rebuked by the judge for such contempt in his court room and presence. Body language most often speaks much louder than words. It was an impression that has stayed with me well into my adult life.

Some years ago I went on what might be considered a diplomatic mission. I went with the advice and consent of someone who at the time was one of the most recognized and recognizable elders of the Church in Charlotte. The mission was for the purpose of looking into whether or not a local “leader” might possibly be another elder in the city. When I got there a “worship” service was just getting started, and I entered the hall and tried to enter into what was happening. I couldn’t help but notice that “the leader/founder” and his assistants were not participating, but rather in the midst of things, even at the front of the hall, (in full view of those who were there). He and his assistant were engaged in conversation, including what appeared to be jokes, including body language, (hands in pocket, etc) that brought back to mind the judge’s rebuke of years before.

For me, I knew immediately that there was no eldership there appropriate to what God calls “church” in Charlotte or anywhere else, for that matter. The practitioners of such body language posture themselves as being above what is going on in the room, court, “church” hall, etc. I have tried to find Scriptural examples where such body language in the presence of God might have acceptance in Heaven. To date I have not found any. Now that I think about it, I think it’s called “contempt of court.”

Love!

P.S. There is a crying need to get the word “repentance” back, at least, for openers.

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